Giving head to your man is more than just sucking his manhood. Blowjobs are like pizza, even the worst ones are still pretty good. With that being said, an amazing blowjob will be one leaving your man squirming and panting for more, and he’ll do ANYTHING for another one. So ladies (and gentlemen) make sure to give this a read to learn how to pleasure your man like never before.
Foreplay & Build-up
A lot of the fun comes before the actual taking his cock in your mouth. A blowjob is like a full meal, and the orgasm is just the dessert.
Start off by using your hands and your body. Lay your man down and show him what he’s in for. Kiss him passionately, and use your hands to slowly remove his clothing. By nature, giving a blowjob is a submissive act, and we are going to lean into that submissiveness.
Your man may be a perfect gentleman who treats you like a queen, but right now, you are going to treat him like a king.
Use your lips and tongue generously, moving down his body as you undress him. Flow down to your knees like a river, not too quick and sudden, make sure to give his neck, chest, and stomach some love before dropping to your knees.
Now that you are between his thighs, make sure to play into the submissive nature of the act. At this moment, you’re here to please him. Run your hands up and down his thighs as you pull down his boxers…
Tip: The foreplay doesn’t have to start when you are together. Men love anticipating a blowjob just as much as receiving it. Make his day better by sending him dirty texts or pics throughout the day, to build the anticipation.
The Act
Giving head can be just as pleasurable as other forms of sex, but your tongue isn't the only tool in your arsenal. Your hands should provide tightness to the experience while your mouth supplies wetness.
A good blowjob doesn’t always start off with a hard cock. Often times when you first start, your man isn’t hard enough to start playing with right away. That’s more than okay! Take the cock in your mouth and slowly play with it using your tongue. Make sure to use your thumbs to massage his inner thigh – increasing the blood flow to the pelvis. With a soft cock, nice flicks of the tongue and long deep sucking will make that cock grow in no time!
If their penis is larger, try using your wet hand to move up and down separately from your mouth. To improve your technique, you can use the wrist twist: keep your mouth on the penis and rotate your firm wrist in clockwise circles as you slide your hand from top to bottom.
Don't forget that your man is likely craving more than just penis stimulation; try massaging areas like thighs and legs for a full-sensory experience. Cup and gently squeeze their testicles when in doubt. When it comes to your tongue, make sure to keep it soft in your mouth when you are moving up and down, then trace along the head and frenulum (the underside where the penis head meets the shaft) with the tip of your tongue. This area is particularly sensitive due to its high concentration of nerve endings so expect them to go wild when you do this. Additionally, flick your tongue up and down or use the flat side of it to lick from base to tip.
Your mouth is full of different textures, like the rigid hard roof, and the soft pouches of your cheeks. Make sure to use ALL of the textures in your mouth to please your man to the fullest!
Tip: If you want to practice, using dildos or even fruits (like a banana) are the perfect tools to try your blowjob skills on. (Just make sure not to stick the fruits back in the fridge after you’re done)
Your Secret Weapons
While using your mouth and hands should come naturally when sucking a nice hard cock, don’t forget to use your secret weapons. Mainly, your voice and eyes.
Showing a man that you are enjoying the blowjob as much as he is, is a sure sign to add to the hot scene.
Moaning and whimpering at his cock is a surefire way to tinkle his senses.
Most men love to hear a woman express her pleasure with sexy noises and it will definitely add to the experience.
For maximum pleasure, eye contact is also key during the blowjob. Staring directly into your partner's eyes while you suck him gives a special kind of intimacy that cannot be replicated elsewhere. Furthermore, looking deep into his eyes can give you an idea of how he is enjoying the experience, which can help you know at what level to take things up or down a notch.
In addition to moaning and making eye contact, make sure to vary your suction speed and intensity during the blowjob. Teasing his cock with gentle licks before diving in for deeper penetration is sure to drive him wild. During this time, experiment with various techniques like licking his shaft in circular motions; alternating between swirling tongue tricks on his frenulum; or simply softly caressing the tip of his penis with your tongue as if it were an ice cream cone.
The possibilities are limitless! Experimentation with different moves is encouraged as long as it feels right for both parties; this way everyone gets more pleasure out of the experience and can reach climax quickly yet satisfyingly.
Tip: Don’t be afraid to get wet!
Adding spit (and lots of it) will only add to the sexy experience. Don’t worry about the mess, it’s a quick and easy clean-up, and the pleasure your man is feeling will be well worth it! Be sure to slap his cock against your tongue, getting it nice and wet!
The Finish
Your man won’t last long if you put this guide to work. Here is how you can finish up your blowjob.
When you feel like your man is nearing orgasm, pick up the pace of your technique. This will help him reach climax faster and experience a more intense orgasm.
When the moment comes, keep doing what you’re doing! But remember to also continue making eye contact with him; this will help increase pleasure even further for both parties.
As he cums inside your mouth, ensure that you don’t stop moving or change the position of your mouth suddenly. A sudden change in tempo or speed can ruin the orgasm’s strength, leaving your partner unsatisfied – so proceed with caution before he finishes inside your mouth. Instead, let him finish and allow his cock to rest slightly in between your lips as if it were its home.
Tip: If you can, make sure to swallow all his juices instead of spitting it out; this will create an even better sensation for him! A man loves the idea that his cum is a nice treat, and if you gleefully swallow his seed, he’ll be more than happy to feed you more.
If swallowing isn't comfortable for you, then make sure to grab some tissue, or have a cloth nearby just in case! Either way, he'll be left feeling satisfied and fulfilled after one of the best blowjobs of his life - congrats!
Conclusion
Giving your partner a great blowjob is an incredibly rewarding experience. With the right techniques, eye contact, and speed changes you can make it so that he experiences pleasure like never before.
Experiment with different moves, get wet with some spit, and finish off with him inside your mouth (if comfortable). Don’t be afraid to take control of the situation and surprise him – making sure to both his eyes is essential in forming intimacy - which can enhance the experience.
With these tips in mind, you should have no problem giving your man one of the best blowjobs he has ever had!
